Yesterday I received a very interesting question from Ginger, a sexy red-headed lil’ lady. Ginger asked:
Do you think it’s the man’s job to set the pace of the relationship?
Um, what? Dating is about YOU! Do you think the man has some secret pacing code that you have to decipher? No way, Jose. Your man is going with the flow and wondering (just like you!) how things will unfold.
My advice is to set the pace that makes YOU feel comfortable. You can change your mind as often as you like. Just remember that you MUST communicate with your man about said pace. Cause when you’re communicating, you’re in it together. And that’s the whole point, right?
Fast or slow, you decide. Enjoy and have fun!!